Not a good one.

I do not understand how men on earth can be so irresponsible.
Today, i receive a phone call from a friend of mine, telling me about her worries of getting pregnancy!I was on the line with her for hours because of her worries!
Her period suppose to due early of the month but there is not even a single dot of blood stain on her panty till today! Her breast harden for two weeks. But i see two possibilities! As what i heard laaaaaaa, pregnancy will make breast harder but i didnt know if pregnant for few weeks can lead to hardness!lol..hack it. I assume what i think is right

First. Sign of getting pregnancy.
Second. Sign of period.

Finally after all the worries she decided to do the pregnancy test! On the box it shown, two stripes means pregnant where else one means safe. She dipped the tester into her urine and waited anxiously!Duh..I suppose for her, this few minute pass extremely slow. it is as though waiting for result regarding life and death!mmm..Slowly the tester appeared a pink line and then a bar of pink color on the other side. She called me to ask for confirmation, but whom am i to give her an accurate answer as i am not the doctor? My advice to her is to go to the doctor for a check up bfore it is too late!Her so call good-boy friend insisted that she is 99% safe as the tester didnt show two pink line, but only one pink line with one bar of pink color. She claimed that she wanted to go to the clinic for assurance but her boy friend kept insisted that the result is accurate. But what is in her mind was "what if the pink bar appear to be the second line?"

Her boy friend asked her jokingly "What will you do if you've baby!" she then answered "abortion."
Both she and her boy friend worry as much as well but the one who is gonna go thru physical pain during abortion ( if she has baby) is the female. Male only go through emotional pain (huh!Maybe there isn't)

All the while she was thinking, "yea yea...there is such things as abortion but babies which have been aborted will be send to heaven.They will all be taken care by Jesus Christ. It is a sin. I can't do that.. "

I was thinking. "What the heck? Killing your own child's life? Well, it is always easy to say but hard to do. I mean, see below

Easy To Say For the Male "Go Abortion laaa...too young to marry..(then they will tipu tipu convince the girl)" OR else worst to worst "aiya..Lets Marry!"

Hard To Do For Females "Painful process of abortion. Illegal abortion means unsafe abortion. What if it is not completely remove and utensil used is not hygiene?Will bring bad bad side effect!!Later suddenly will pengsan and black out in the middle of the street..Heard this happen to my friend friend's b4!mm.. OR else worst "Marry?Embarrass if too young. Aunty Uncle mouth manyak besar. They will start gossiping especially about the female. Female parents will start scolding cos feel humiliating. Worst still, if both couple marry cos of responsibility not love. How if in future, the male ditch the girl aside cos of no love?eh eh eh eh eh???

While she is talking to me bout her stories, i was thinking "both party will suffer from worries but the one who will suffer most is the female as the one who need to go through abortion or delivery surgery is HER not HIM. Male worry worry and worry, discuss, worry, discuss, worry!make decision together!wait and wait. Whether they want it or doesnt, whether they hate it or dislike, they are only feeling it enotionally not physically. mana ada sakit?sakit hati only..But after a few months, lupa lagi. buat lagi.

Sorry, not reffering to all males yah!


A`ight. I hope that she will be fine and that her period delay is due to some other reason..I'm sorry to hear that as well. Love yu chiq!